Showing posts with label strengthened by God. Show all posts
Showing posts with label strengthened by God. Show all posts

Thursday, 4 July 2013

Cultivating courage:Letter to the brave

Letter to the brave




Hello, my brave friend,
Yes you, with head low and furrowed brow, eyes averted, looking to disappear and hide in the corner. Attention is usually unwelcome in your life. Too much of the wrong kind has sensitised you to being singled out.

How can I call you brave? Isn't that reserved for real life heroes and heroines:the fire fighters, fight stoppers, adrenaline-fuelled, rescue mission, have-a-go type who scorns peril and leaps in regardless to save lives and save the day?

Or maybe those who avoid attention but find it seeks them out anyway when God and others notice how they face up to adversity, hardship, pain, struggle and shame with gritted teeth, steely-eyed endurance and patient perseverance.

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It is true that courage is found in many places:

In a garden called Gethsemane where Jesus sweat blood for you and me. On a cross becoming sin our Lord hung dying so we could live free.

In a hospital bed, laying gasping for breath. On a cancer ward facing fear and death. 

On a blood-stained street facing an angry, knife-laden horde.

With the chronically sick, disabled and poor fighting stigma and shame as politicians fleece them once more.

Through the daily grind, weary rise of body, feeling wretched inside with all we try to hide that corrupts our mind.

Hunched low over laptop or PC, with fingers hesitating to press the 'publish' key, fearing ridicule, being ignored, or how we may be received and perceived.

And courage wears many faces:

A thorn-pierced brow, bleeding limbs and spittle-stained face as our Saviour offers a gift of grace.

Wives and mothers with sons and lovers sent out to fight, brave for the battle, tears in the night.

Those who mourn, grief-stricken, bereaved. 

Those who are prisoners of their past seeking release at last, longing to be free.

Wearing masks of indifference, masks of scorn, while on the inside, hidden so deep, we're  lonely, lost and forlorn.

Single parents despairing over whether they are able to somehow keep house and home together, never mind put food on the table.

Finally, courage will embrace us

Arms of love reaching out in nail-pierced agony, then a brief desolation cry as Jesus dies; His resurrection setting us free to be the people we're intended to be.

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My friend, you and I don't have to feel brave at all. God sees our daily battles, tears on pillow, body slumped over in sorrow, pervading pain and distress, and He has the ability to cover everything we may encounter.

"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God in whom I trust" ~ Psalm 91:1-2

God holds us all in His tender embrace, not expecting us to be brave (or pretend to save face) for He has provided the solution in love by His grace, and all the courage we need to get through our days.

Bring Him your surrendered life and He will erase (over time) the ache in your heart, the pain you endure, those awful days when life feels far from secure and you don't know how to go on.

For God wants us to take hold of His courage today and wear it instead of letting our fears hold sway

So come out of your corner, my friend, lift up your head, take hold of God's hand, and together with Him we will stand strong in this battle. For we are not relying on human power, but walking by faith in His unlimited resources hour by hour.

Courage is faith that has said a prayer and goes out boldly relying on God's grace

Believe you can make it through this one day..and the next...and so on...until fears subside.

For many have trod this path we are on and found God's strength the only reliable thing to lean upon as they cultivate courage in the face of life's storms.


Dear Father,
We are so thankful that we do not have to rely on our own limited abilities, strength or resources. 
As we look to you and receive from your unlimited, overflowing supply, 
we are able to face and handle situations that seem impossible to cope with alone.
For it is not your intention for us to journey through life without relying on your 
guidance, help, strength and equipping for everything. 
And as we lean on you, you infuse us with grace 
and peace to face life with hope and purpose, 
to stand strong in your strength when we feel weak, to have your courage to live 
without fear and anxiety making us paralysed and hesitant to do the right thing, 
to face another day and to make it through tough times.
May we continue to seek your help as we go through our days,
staying aware and thankful for the many ways 
in which you care for and protect us.
Amen

"I can do everything through him who gives me strength" ~ Philippians 4:13

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Linking here with Sabrina Fowles at Just keep singing as part of the 'Letter to' series. This week's prompt is: 'Letter to the brave' and with Anita Hunt at Scattering the Stones Ministry for Thankful Thursday You are very welcome to join in.




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Saturday, 24 November 2012

Out of my depth



Have you been out of your depth recently? I have. It is easy to feel swamped and overwhelmed.

My tendency - even as an M.E sufferer - is to rush (OK metaphorically speaking) into things with both feet, arms flailing, legs akimbo. What I may lack in skill I more than make up for in enthusiasm as I eagerly bound into new things, straining at the leash with puppyish delight. Let me at it!

The I surface - red faced and breathless - left choking and spluttering while the more experienced people dive in smoothly and swim around in a seamless, steady, effortless, professional and efficient fashion. They look so graceful and confident. Life is easy for them. At least that's how it seems. Oh, how I long to BE THEM.

Why am I always the one left slinking off to the shallow end, desperately searching for something to hold on to while I recover my breath and try to feel the surface beneath my feet again? 

What started out looking comparatively easy and straightforward has brought too many challenges to deal with by myself. Or what looked too difficult becomes something I try to ignore and avoid doing.

Perhaps I'm not alone?
Maybe someone else can relate to feeling like:

  • A failure
  • Procrastinator
  • Inadequate
  • Hopeless

Sometimes life can cause us to react like this if:

  • Waves of worry have sunk us into a fit of depression
  • Tides of terror stalk our days and nights as fear knocks us sideways
  • Streams of sorrow engulf and threaten to drown us
  • Ripples of resentment or regret filter continually through our minds
  • Crustaceans of comparison have stolen our joy

Our tendency may be to run away from our problems when waves of crisis or difficulty loom on the horizon. No matter if we subsequently suffer from more difficulties and frustrations later on as a consequence of our immediate cowardice or procrastination.
Guess what?

Such feelings are more common than we think - especially with things we ought to rather than choose to do.

In fact, the Bible has a great example in the book of Jonah. When he tried to run away from the clear challenge God had presented to him of preaching His word of repentance to the people of Nineveh, his life became far more complicated and dangerous as a result. He ended up in the belly of a great fish:

"Lord..You hurled me into the deep,
into the very heart of the seas,
and the currents swirled about me;
all your waves and breakers swept over me.
The engulfing waters threatened me,
the deep surrounded me;
seaweed was wrapped round my head" ~ Jonah 2:3, 5

He was someone who felt resentful and overwhelmed by the commission he was given and chose to follow his own instincts rather than the path that God had chosen for him.

Yet God showed Jonah grace and mercy by arranging for him to be swallowed by the fish instead of drowning. He was rescued and given a second chance. Jonah's story shows us that:

  • Our way of looking at a situation is not the same as God's
  • Our disobedience can be costly
  • Our mission and calling are important
  • Our trust in God to see us through is vital
  • Our experiences can be lessons for others

The best way to beat the waves of trials and painful challenges is to: Face Them and admit our need of help outside our own resources.

So where did the defection and dereliction of duty leave Jonah? In the belly of a whale - a place where he gained a fresh perspective. Often God positions us in such a place. It may come by various means. 

But we can always rely on it to make us sit up and reconsider what God is asking us to do. God will still fulfil His purposes in, through and even despite of us at times. Grace and help are freely available.
"And when by God's grace I come through it all? Oh, the relief when I know the problem is behind me. With God's help I've beaten it. What an invigorating feeling!" ~ from 'Secret Strength' by Joni Eareckson Tada
We are helped far more than we may know:
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand" ~ Isaiah 41:10
I would love you to share your own experiences:

Can you relate to feeling out of your depth?
What helped or hindered the process?
Did a fresh perspective help you to see life differently?